So often when a couple decides to end their relationship, they want to walk away and never have to deal with the other person again. Couples without children have this option, but couples with children do not. As co-parents, you are bound together for life in that role. As I tell my clients, it doesn’t [...]

Just this past week, I experienced this principle first hand. In the past my blog posts have been about mediation, divorce, conflict, and communication – always from a business point of view. Today, I’m going to share something with you on a more personal note. I’m hoping that by doing this, you will understand the [...]

Do you wonder how your children will cope with your separation and/or divorce?  Are you concerned about their well-being during and after the divorce?  Have you heard the sad stories of parents using their children as “pawns” in the divorce process?  Do you want to spare your children the heartache and stress of divorce?  Mediation [...]

How many times have you been frustrated with someone because they didn’t understand what you said to them?  How often have your comments been misinterpreted by someone?  Not being understood can be very annoying and difficult.  It can cause relationships to break down and end terribly.  Misunderstandings happen everyday and can result in small irritations [...]

Treat each other with respect.  Avoid personal attacks and name calling.  No blaming.  Speak up for yourself.  You don’t have to agree to something you don’t want to.  When I review my ground rules for mediation, most people look at the list and say to themselves – “I’m not going to do that. I’m not [...]

What is the mediator’s role in mediation? As the mediator, he/she has a duty to propose alternatives, make suggestions and provide legal information (if applicable) that will help the parties in making their decisions. The mediator must ensure a balanced exchange between the parties. By doing so, the mediator will intervene to prevent any manipulation [...]

Have you found yourself locked in a battle with your teenager? Does it seem like they can’t hear or understand anything you’ve said? Do you feel frustrated with the lack of communication you have with your teen? These are common issues that surface when parenting a teen. As they separate from you, misunderstandings are magnified [...]